Obituary of Constance Alimonte Gaydorus

Constance (Connie) Alimonte Gaydorus of Endicott, NY passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family on April 18, 2025. Connie was born on July 30, 1928 to Benjamin and Betty Loy. One of seven children, she is predeceased by her parents as well as her siblings Joseph, David, John, Rose, Angeline, and Maurice. Connie was also predeceased by her husband Frank Gaydorus, son-in-law Michael Matthews, her beloved son Samuel “Chip” Alimonti and grandson Chris Alimonti. 

Connie is survived by her partner of 30 years Douglas Hammond; her daughters and son-in-laws Bonnie and Steve Lindberg, Pamela Alimonti, and Tanya and Angelo DePersiis; her grandchildren—who affectionately called her “Mimi”—Kerry Ransburg, Latacha (Charlie) Berluche, Sacha (Mike) Castelli, Daniella (Michael) Weston, Desirée (Matthew) McCormick, Denice Webb, Lisa Saunders, Lori Pennington, and Wendy (Justin) Middaugh. 16 great-grandchildren whom she adored—Marcus Ransburg; JuSean, Tabion, and Nijah Wiggins; Naje Marshall, Charlie Jr., Simone, Anna, Eli, and Ezra Berluche; Nina, Olivia, and Henry Weston; and Lilly, Ronan, and Seren McCormick; 3 great-great-grandchildren, Kaleb, Jameela, and Ashe Burton; as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, and friends.

Connie grew up in Binghamton, NY, where she graduated from Binghamton Central High School before continuing her education at Broome Tech and SUNY Binghamton, where she was a member of Phi Zeta Kappa. A driven and accomplished professional, Connie served as Vice President of Mer-Lit Fabricating Corporation, maintaining a key leadership role through its merger with Union Corp. Her entrepreneurial spirit later led her to launch several successful small businesses, including a local arcade and her longstanding practice, House of Electrolysis, which she owned and operated with dedication from 1981 until her retirement in 2016.

Connie embraced life fully and never missed a chance to stay active and connected. She found happiness in traveling, line dancing, hiking scenic trails, and keeping up with her exercise routine. Known for her impeccable sense of style, Connie was always fashionably dressed—a reflection of the pride she took in presenting herself with elegance and confidence. Her passion for travel took her across the globe, where she eagerly explored new cultures and landscapes with curiosity and enthusiasm. She also delighted in the simple pleasures of life, from the fun and excitement of a good day at the casino to the warmth of winter months spent in West Palm Beach, FL, alongside her beloved partner, Doug.

Connie was a woman of grace, warmth, and remarkable energy. A devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, her family was the heart of her world—and she filled their lives with unconditional love, support, and endless encouragement. In Connie's own words, her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren were "what made life on earth worth it all." She led by example, with kindness in her words, strength in her actions, and joy in her heart.

Guided by a strong and steady faith, Connie was a long time member of Endicott Assembly of God Church. Her belief in God was a source of strength throughout her life, and it shaped the way she loved, served, and gave so generously to others.

Connie leaves behind a legacy of love and kindness that will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew her. She brought laughter, wisdom, style, and warmth wherever she went, and touched countless lives with her generous heart. Constance will be remembered not only for how she loved, but for how fully she lived.

With heartfelt gratitude, the family would like to thank those who cared for Connie during her final months; Julia, Lettitia, and especially Desiree Charles. Your gentle presence and unwavering support brought comfort and peace when it was needed most, and we are forever grateful.

A Memorial Service will be celebrated on Friday, April 25 at 12:00PM at Coleman & Daniels Funeral Home, 300 E Main Street, Endicott, NY. Burial will be in Riverside Cemetery immediately following the service. The family will receive friends Friday from 11:00AM until 12:00PM.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Connie's memory to Endicott Assembly of God Church, PO Box 217 Vestal, NY